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Oga, Why…?

It has been a while since we sat beside the beach to chat. I have missed you, did you miss me? I’m sure you did. Hmm… a lotttt has happened over the years, I’m sure you already know that, I wouldn’t want to bore you with that, I just want to let you know that, I am sorry for going for too long this time. I really want you to be grateful for me, grateful for life, and all that the water has dragged along our ways. I am sincerely grateful to God that, I am alive and well. Thank you for always being a shoulder to lean on. Today, I want to ask you something that has been bothering me, the question is; why do men take the time and pain to ask a girl out, after they have succeeded in getting her “green light,” they then decide to withdraw yet they expect the girl to do the chasing?  Please make it make sense. Why do men do that? I would really need an answer… I would really need an answer to this because it is mind-boggling to have a man approach a girl (in a boy-meets-girl situation) of...